McShep - non-con progressing to con

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Hello all!

Just made my way through a Marriage of Inconvinence by Kat Reitz and Tzigane, but I just couldn't get into it.  I was wondering if some people could suggest McShep fics of the genre relating to non-con turning into con ... but one where I don't end up disrespecting both characters.  Does such a fic exist?  (using the tags didn't really find me anything)

So to clarify: looking for a fic where either John or Rodney are complete bastards - there may be non-con sex, or just a really bad attitude.  But eventually through some kind of well-written story they both end up happily together.  I'm assuming this may be an AU, or it may be an amnesia fic, or possible just a really well written sga story.  

Does anyone have any suggestions?

(edit: I tried to put tags on this but was told I wasn't authorized.  So sorry for missing the tags!)